having sex or making love??

Is there really a difference between having sex and making love??
Some people might argue that there's no difference - physically, they are the same. But, emotionally, passionately and mentally, both deeds are very different.
"Having Sex" is just simply a physical act on physical context. 
" Making Love" is beyond the realm of physical actions. Sex is wonderful to enjoy but Make Love is experiencing something, the feelings.
                     

Sex is momentary and mechanical. You can just have sex with simply anyone, sex with strangers you hooked up in the club, sex with your ex or even sex with your friends. You only need orgasm in sex. There is no strings attached, no commitment and promise. You have sex just simply for the pleasure of it, or physical satisfaction. You get your sexual needs fulfilled in sex. There are just motions without emotions in sex.

Make Love is not in anyway just casual sex. You can only make love with the special one who loves you and vice versa. Emotions run in deep and you can feel the passion and love. Making Love is when 2 persons whom are in love with each other, connect bodies and souls together non-verbally in the intercourse. There is a chemical produced by the sexual hormones that interacts in the bodies creating a magnetic reaction.

The moment when you take off her clothes , what you're thinking??

you love her or just want having sex with her??

No Strings Attached